Oh, you touch so many nerves, Nikola.

Body positivity is like feminism now. Everyone is using it for their personal benefit without understanding that its implementation comes at a personal sacrifice.

The result: convolution and contortion.

I especially relate to your observation about mixed reviews from people when you change styles. I've start to believe that most people really don't know what they like, and in that ambiguity, lies the true essence of humankind.